Period Self Care Cheat Sheet: How to Find Relief During Menstruation
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Menstruation is a time of internal winter, it is the dark moon, the stillness. So it is no wonder Women are struggling with maintaining self-care in a fast-paced modern world!
The days leading up to and including menstruation are asking us to slow down and Please Make Space (PMS)….
But that is not always possible! I often find myself torn between work and Mothering during this time, when what I truly need is rest. So that is why I created this Cheat Sheet, for the menstruating women with busy schedules who still want to prioritize self-care *where we can fit it*!
With this type of self-care, we are going to focus on stress-reduction. Instead of creating more elevated energy in the body, we are focusing on bringing the energy down in a more rooted, grounded, and calming way - even when your schedule is full!
Hormone Drops and the Rise of Period Symptoms
During the days leading up to bleeding and menstruation itself, it can be the most challenging time for a woman to show up in a grounded way. This is because our hormones are dropping drastically.
During this time in our cycle, we have the lowest levels of estrogen, testosterone, progesterone, serotonin, FSH, and LH. This directly impacts our energy levels and capacity for emotional regulation. It is important to recognize how drastic a change this is for us, including fatigue and mood swings, that it will have effects on our daily lives, so that we can prepare for this time and learn the tools to help us regulate.
Period Self Care Tips
Each of the following practices are designed to stimulate the Vagus nerve, the director of the parasympathetic nervous system. The Vagus nerve is in charge of your ability to regulate, rest, and digest life, and is the counterbalance to your fight or flight, and thus it is the key when we want to recover an internal sense of calm.
1-5 minute tools & strategies…
Trans-Abdominal Breathing
Inhale and allow your stomach to expand, then exhale while consciously pulling your belly button toward your spine. The exhale should last longer than your inhale, and you can hum and hold it as long as possible if you find yourself struggling with short exhales.
Big Sighs
Inhale and make an apparent sound as you exhale. Slump your shoulders and fully release as you sigh. Repeat as many times as you can until you feel a shift.
Bhramari Breath
Plug your ears with your thumbs and softly cover your eyelids with your fingers. Inhale deeply and as you exhale, hum like a bumble bee with your mouth closed. Try to vibrate the roof of your mouth.
Toning
Loud singing of specific tones to stimulate the vocal cords. Experiment with different tones both deep and high until you find a frequency supportive to you.
Sense Check-In
Close your eyes and one-by-one check in with each of your senses. What are you hearing? What do you see? Smell? Feel? And taste? This can be exceptionally grounding.
Aromatherapy
Choose a scent and immerse yourself into it, attempting to turn off thoughts while experiencing it.
Gargling
Gargle with water for a sustained period to stimulate the vocal cords. This stimulates the Vagus nerve and directs it to begin digestion.
Cold-Face Immersion
Immerse the forehead, cheeks, and eyes into ice cold water for as long as you can comfortably hold your breath. Upon emergence, don't dry your face too quickly. Allow the experience of wetness for a few seconds after.
Fake Laughter
Force yourself to laugh in whatever way you can. Act out a scene where you can be expressive and dramatic. Even fake laughter triggers responses in the brain as if you were really laughing.
Acupressure
Acupressure is an effective way of connecting with the major energy points of your body. They are located by feeling a small divot under the skin. Sensations are normally intense! Apply firm pressure while moving in small circles for 1 minute. Repeat on both sides of your body.
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In the center of your wrist, three fingers up your arm from the base of your hand you will find acupressure point HEART-7. An important trigger point for the Vagus Nerve and relief of anxiety.
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Directly to the outside of your shin bone, four fingers down from the base of the knee cap, you will find acupressure point STOMACH-36. This point calms the stomach and is effective for stopping pain and assisting depression relief.
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On your ear, find the concha cymba, the cavity just above your ear canal. This is acupressure point CONCHA CYMBA. This helps to regain inner balance, relieve pain, and releases pathogens + infections from the body.
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LARGE INTESTINE-4 can be found between the thumb and index finger. On the top of the hand, find the soft spot between thumb and index finger bone. This helps to relieve pain and regulate elimination. Perfect for menstruation!
Music
Music is proven to directly affect our internal systems, but let's be selective! Listen to 425GHZ frequency songs. Search it on Youtube or Spotify - there are many options for all genres! 425GHZ music is the frequency of healing, assists in reducing anxiety, and can lower blood pressure and heart rate!
Sunshine
Exposing sunshine on the skin enables the skin to synthesize vitamin D, but it also has a huge effect on our mood! Sunlight in the eyes boosts serotonin levels significantly.
Movement
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Shaking: shake and wiggle your entire body in whatever way feels best. This stimulates the Vagus nerve and releases tons of endorphins.
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Dancing: for when the kids won't stop, I throw music on loud in the hopes that we all release some of that pent up energy!
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Hip movements: The hips are the epicenter of stored energy and emotion. Widen the legs, point the toes out to opposite sides, and rotate those hips as fully as you can!
Conclusion
These period self care tips are simple and are meant to offer relief when our schedules just do not allow for us to retire for an hour or more to maintain proper self-care while menstruating.
Menstruation is a time for energy to move down and out, and these tools are designed to bring the energy back down and into our center - perfect for the menstruating woman.
The techniques don't take away the stress. They help us regulate and calm our physical bodies, so we can respond from a centered place.
May we all find moments of feeling rest, calm, and empowerment during menstruation.
Written by Amber Jade Instagram: @thriving.wild
Frequently Asked Questions
Period selfcare is about listening closely to what your body is asking for during this time of the month. The menstrual cycle is a natural rhythm, and when hormones drop, energy levels shift and pms symptoms like fatigue, mood swings, or cramping can show up. Self care tips that truly support you include using a heating pad or hot water bottle for painful periods, taking a warm bath or hot shower to relax muscle soreness, and staying hydrated to support healthy digestion and blood flow. A nutritious diet with whole grains, lean protein, and plenty of water helps reduce bloating and provide relief from other symptoms.
During menstruation, it’s important to respect your body’s limits. Overexertion, pushing through fatigue, or ignoring symptoms often makes things worse. Alcohol and highly processed foods can increase water retention and bloating, while too much caffeine may add to anxiety and trouble sleeping. Skipping meals or restricting food during your menstrual period disrupts hormone regulation and lowers energy levels further. Healthcare providers and the American College of Obstetricians recommend avoiding extremely strenuous workouts if you’re experiencing painful periods, intense cramping, or heavy blood flow, this doesn’t mean stop moving, but shift into gentler forms of movement like yoga, walking, or hip stretches that relieve tension. Above all, don’t ignore persistent pain or changes that show up every few months, those are signs worth discussing with a healthcare provider.
To honor your body during your menstrual period is to slow down and listen. Self care in this phase is less about doing more and more about creating space for rest, relief, and nourishment. A hot water bottle placed on your belly, a warm bath infused with essential oils, or heat therapy applied to sore muscles all send signals of safety to your nervous system. Eating a balanced, nutritious diet with whole grains, lean protein, and vegetables supports healthy digestion and hormone regulation, while staying hydrated helps reduce bloating and fatigue. Rest and enough sleep allow your body to repair and regulate. Menstrual cups or whichever period product feels most comfortable help you feel confident and supported. Movement like light dancing, shaking, or hip circles can help energy move through and reduce stress.
There’s a common belief in some traditions that washing your hair during menstruation is harmful. Modern healthcare providers, including the American College of Obstetricians, have shown that there is no medical reason to avoid washing your hair during your period. In fact, a hot shower can increase blood flow, reduce cramping, and provide relief from pms symptoms like muscle soreness or stress. Warm water also supports relaxation and helps with healthy digestion by calming the nervous system. If washing your hair feels soothing and gives you a sense of refreshment, then it becomes part of your period self care. The key is to listen to your body. if you feel tired, choose rest, but if a warm bath or shower helps you stay comfortable, it is safe and supportive.